The Relational Dialectics Theory And The Genderlect Styles...

Communication is not only verbal, but also nonverbal. We send messages to others through our words, actions, facial expressions and body language. All of these forms of communication affect our relationships and vary between men and women. Numerous communication theories have been established regarding relationships and gender, but I will discuss two specific theories, the Relational Dialectics Theory and the Genderlect Styles Theory. One theory is based on the contradictions and interactions, which takes place in relationships. The other theory is based on the gender communication differences in relationships. When we can understand the differences in communication techniques and theories, we can apply them to our relationships with family, friends, co-workers and strangers. This paper will explore each theory and how it is incorporated into our relationships, how each theory helps us in understanding the opposite sex and how each theory connects to our biblical worldview. Relational Dialectics Theory is â€Å"A dynamic knot of contradictions in personal relationships; an unceasing interplay between contrary or opposing tendencies† (Em Griffin, 2012, p. 137). This theory displays the tensions present in any relationship. According to professors Leslie Baxter and Barbara Montgomery, â€Å"this concept focuses on the contradictions in relationships. These contradictions arise when two people of varying differences maintain a relationship† (Relational Dialectics Theory in